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Manifestation Magic | Tapping into Your Higher Self
Has it happened to you that you've been going through your head with a particular situation, issue, problem, and then you go into the shower, and you're taking a relaxing shower, and all of a sudden, boom, I've got it.
I've got it.
The idea is just like making sense now.
I know what to say.
I know the word that I need.
I know all these things are coming into place.
So guess what happened there?
That is your subconscious mind being allowed to come through with the higher vantage point.
That's why they call it the higher self or the higher mind, because it comes from a different vantage point from the layer of problems that you are usually immersed in.
We are moms, we are bosses, and we're living abroad.
And in this brand new season of this exciting podcast, we are boosting the woman to woman connection through deep, intimate conversations to pause, reflect, and go beyond the scheme deep.
And we are here to celebrate your unique journey.
No matter how old your business or your babies or where you are in the world, you are not alone.
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We are Desiree and Iva, and this is Mom Bosses Abroad.
I am here, as always, very joyfully sharing the recording studio with my business bestie and podcast co-host Desiree Gonzalez.
Hi Des.
Hi Iva.
So good to be here.
I know, it's always fun times when we are recording and putting episodes together for our listeners.
Today is quite special.
I feel the energy already from it because it is all about diving deep into the art and science of manifesting, possibly not diving as deep as we would like to because we have limited time, but we do want to talk about this and share about this incredibly powerful tool because I do consider it to be an amazing tool that we can all start using and tap into to create the life of our dreams and to really build that ideal future that we imagine ourselves to live in and have down the line.
I have been hearing about this for many years now, right, manifesting, manifestation, not always knowing completely what it is until I feel very blessed that last year you really brought me into that world of manifestation and you taught me everything that I know about it today.
You really taught me and I think it's fascinating and I have then gone into to learn more about it.
We have done rounds of manifestation together and it's again one of those things that is so incredibly powerful.
It's something anyone can do and it's another one of these little secrets we don't want to keep to ourselves, right?
We want to share with other mom bosses abroad, with fellow mompreneurs, because with that, you can really change the trajectory of your year ahead.
I really believe that you can.
Yes.
And this is not something that was invented recently.
You know, this is not just like a new fad or like a new something that is in or hot right now or a trend on social media, even though you do see more and more the new generations tapping into their own techniques and ways to go about it if you are on popular social media platforms.
But back in the days, you know, if you want to go back like a few generations ago and even way, way, way further than that.
But there are some incredibly classic books on the subject, like The Power of Positive Thinking, The Science of Getting Rich, Think and Grow Rich.
I think I read them all at some point when I was younger.
And it really is one of this, I believe, truths that it doesn't matter what age or what part in which stage of civilization you come into, there's someone somewhere that is touting this truth or this principle so that we can all benefit from them.
And I think it starts off with this sense that I personally don't believe that we came here to suffer.
I personally don't believe that life is a struggle and then you die.
I believe in the power of creating a life that you feel excited about, that you are in this energy of pinch me, I can't believe this is my life type of feeling.
I believe that you can thrive and have fun along the way.
That is what I believe.
And so when we're talking about manifesting, it goes into the direction of what is it that you want to believe in?
What is it that you want to make real for yourself in case you're not experimenting it yet fully or to the degree that you want to, but what is that?
Because manifesting is just going to bring more evidence of that or it's going to give you exactly that.
It's like rubbing the genie in a bottle.
And so whatever it is that you believe it is possible for you, then you can certainly have it, achieve it, experience it, feel it and enjoy it.
Manifestation is really something, it's all got to do with attracting things into your life, isn't it?
And it goes back as far as like back at the religion and where spirituality, if like, if something becomes real, it is said to be a manifestation, right?
Usually in the spiritual sense way before.
But nowadays, it has been spread to include all aspects of life, for example, things like attracting certain opportunities in your life, right?
It could be attracting job offers, promotions that you're really after, or business opportunities, collaborations, the chances to showcase what you're doing, like appearances on a podcast or writing an article or something like that.
It's all of these opportunities that you really, really desire in your life and that all of a sudden appear because you've literally manifested them, right?
Or it can be things like improving your relationships, right?
Like something, if you're longing for deeper friendships, loving people, harmonious romantic partnerships, right?
Or increasing the harmony in your current relationship or connections with family members, all of that.
So different aspects of your life, it can be translated into health and well-being if that's what's important for you, manifesting good health, right?
Attracting physical healing, increased energy, mental clarity, a positive shift in overall wellness.
But it can also go into so much more.
And the one, I think also like personal growth and development, spiritual connection, right?
We can dive into that.
But the one thing that really Iva taught me as well is how I got into this, is all about this abundance, abundance and prosperity.
So manifesting abundance really means like attracting financial opportunities, increased income, financial stability and material possessions even.
And it's so interesting if once you become aware of what's possible, it will just blow you away.
It's incredible what this power of manifestation can actually do for you.
And it's so readily available to all of us.
At any time when we're ready to make it so.
So here's the other interesting point about manifesting is that if you believe that it can work for you, if you believe that it can apply to you, to your life, to what are your current aspirations, then most likely it will become the self-fulfilling prophecy.
But if you think that manifesting is something that is very woo-woo, or nobody has been able to prove it, or that it just seems too abstract to comprehend, and you're not sure that it's going to work for you, then most likely that is what you will literally be manifesting more of.
So I find that to be such an interesting point to bring across, because it all starts, I feel, with what we are thinking that is possible, meaning what our belief system is.
And so manifesting can happen in the direction that we desire.
So if somebody is saying, oh, I want to, I don't know, I want to achieve this goal, but I know that it's going to take a long time, and it's going to require a lot of effort, then in a way, you are manifesting that that will be so.
Like you will reach the goal, but it will also come at a later time, and it will require a lot of your energy and time.
Whereas someone that says, no, I do believe in achieving that same objective, but I think I can do it faster, I think it can be more effortless, and I can enjoy myself along the way, then that also will materialize in that sense.
Because when it comes to manifesting, there's something very interesting that we need to be aware of, and it's the fact that we are talking about energetics.
And the reason why I bring this in is because Albert Einstein came up with this equation, E equals MC squared, which pretty much means that everything is energy.
Everything is made up of energy in the universe, in this planet, the chair that we're sitting on, the microphone that we're using to record this podcast, but also the emotions that we feel, the thoughts that we have, everything is energy.
And so when we are manifesting in a way, we are just bringing in more of that same type of energy into our sphere.
And so, yes, we can really go into saying, well, I want to manifest a particular type of opportunity or an income goal or a certain person in my life or manifest so many things.
People certainly think about the material things like the house, the car, the bank account.
But it requires for us to also be open to the fact that the way we think, the way we feel, the way we see the world is also making that manifestation come about in a certain way.
And that's why I give that example to say, if you think it's going to require a lot of effort, most likely it will because you're bringing in that energy into it and saying, this is what I believe should be the case for this to become real in my life.
But if you feel differently and you say, no, I think it can be done in a different way, not because it's better or because it came about faster, it's better for me.
It's just because I believe it can be done faster, then most likely it will have to abide by that because we are able to really impact and have a direct effect on our life and the events and the people that come about into our sphere through what we believe and what we think about.
Now, manifestation is so much more than just if there's something you truly desire in your life, you can just write it out, right?
Make like a wish list, I would like this to happen, I want this, I want that.
But then you sit back and do nothing, that's obviously not going to work, right?
But manifestation really goes so deep into, really, like Iva just said, believing that that's what you want, believing that that's what you can indeed achieve.
And in previous episodes, and so many times we've also mentioned the power of that subconscious mind, and Iva, 95%, right?
95% is steered by the subconscious mind.
Only 5% is that what we're, like that wish list creation.
It's not going to get you far because, especially if you don't do anything about it, it's, right?
It's like you don't even need to try to do that.
But once you really truly believe something and you repeatedly bring that into your subconscious, and there are so many strategies about how you can do that, it will happen because you will start to put into action the things you need to do to achieve that goal.
Yes.
And I think it is absolutely fascinating and there's so much to learn about it.
But like you also said, Eva, it is available to anyone.
Anyone can do this.
You just need to know how.
Right.
As long as you understand what the setup is.
And I think this is a good opportunity to just expand a little bit on the three layers that we all, everyone, regardless of our gender, our age, the stage in life that we're in, we all have access to.
But understanding how they overlay with each other is important so that then we don't go into the confusion or the sense of, okay, but if I'm manifesting, should I just be waiting and allowing?
Or do I need to be doing something?
But if I do something, am I efforting myself then into making it happen?
And isn't it supposed to happen quickly and easily?
And then it's like the mind has a lot of opinions about things.
So to unravel that a little bit, I would say that the first layer that we have access to is the physical world, what we call the 3D world.
Because when you take an object and you can see it from the bottom up, from the top down, from one side to the next, sideways, and so forth.
And so this is the world that we experience through our senses.
Touch, smell, hearing, seeing, sight.
So here in this layer of the physical world, we are mostly operating from our conscious side.
We all have a conscious mind, we all have a subconscious mind.
So in this world, this is the world of also where things seem to be more like problems.
Where we feel that this has to be solved, we feel that this is lacking, we feel that this is not right, we feel that this needs improvement.
This is the first layer that we are in contact with the moment we open our eyes and we start interacting with everything and everyone around us.
But there is another layer that comes a little bit over that.
And that layer is the layer of the 4D world, which is the layer where solutions come from.
Einstein was a genius.
That is not an overstatement.
He was a genius.
And one of his famous phrases is that you cannot solve a problem at the same level of awareness or at the same level of thought that he was created in or something to that extent.
What did he mean by that?
What he meant was that when we are trying to solve a problem, when we are trying to solve our problems in the 3D world, in the physical world, by using the same tools of our senses and just our conscious mind, we're not most likely going to be successful in changing things, in making what we want happen.
So what he was referring to is to this additional layer that's on top of this one, which is the layer where solutions come from.
And solutions come from where?
From the subconscious mind.
So the 4D or this other layer is where we're able to access our higher self through our subconscious mind and using the imagination.
In one of the episodes of this series, we talked that the language of the subconscious is emotions and imagination using creativity.
So that is why when you are able to look at a problem from a different angle altogether, it's like, aha, it's like the light bulb moment.
It's like, oh my God, why hadn't I seen it before?
Of course it makes sense.
But we need to allow ourselves to have that connection through the subconscious mind to be able to gather the components, meaning to bring about the conversation that is going to give us that idea or the interaction or the person or reading that text or that quote or that burst of inspiration.
A lot of people that are really great at manifesting, they can attest to the power of taking naps when you are able to just allow your subconscious mind to just align the data and the information it has gathered throughout today to bring about a solution.
Hasn't it happened to you, for example, that you go to bed with a problem, and then the next morning when you wake up, it's sort of like you have figured it out?
I have figured it out, yes.
Or, what about this one for mompreneurs?
Has it happened to you that you've been going through your head with a particular situation, issue, problem, and then you go into the shower, and you're taking a relaxing shower, and all of a sudden, boom, I've got it.
I've got it.
The idea is just like making sense now.
I know what to say.
I know the word that I need.
I know all these things are coming into play.
So guess what happened there?
It happens to me either under the shower or when I'm on my bike.
Both times when I'm not able to write things down, that's often a little...
I have so many amazing ideas, and like you said, solutions to problems.
And I'm like, I need to write it down.
I need to write it down and I can't.
But that's a different problem.
So that is your subconscious mind being allowed to come through with the higher vantage point.
That's why they call it the higher self or the higher mind, because it comes from a different vantage point from the layer of problems that you are usually immersed in.
So that's why we get those lightbulb moments when we are doing something that is in a different direction or relaxing all together, but it's the way the subconscious mind works.
It's why when you are trying to remember someone's name, you're like, I have their face in front of me.
Like I have it, or the word that I want to say, or it's that place, I know the name of that restaurant, and then you do something else, and all of a sudden, you're talking about whatever, and then you're like, oh my God, I got it.
That's the name.
That's the person, right?
That is how the subconscious mind works.
It sometimes needs to allow a little bit of space for it to just come through with what you needed.
But if you're trying to press on, like that is the willpower aspect, and that is when we are solely in that first layer of problems and the physical reality.
When we're just trying to solve out of our own willpower, what happens is that we become very drained, we become fatigued, we possibly don't make a lot of inroads, we feel that we're failing, but it's because we're not bringing in that next layer of our subconscious mind into the mix and allowing it to the heavy lifting.
I have another example, and tell me if this is sort of in the same concept, but I have a feeling sometimes when I'm talking to someone, like I'm talking through an idea, or I'm talking to someone, helping them with something, all of a sudden I get something which I was not planning to say.
It was not as part of what I wanted to share, but it just came.
All of a sudden, like something that I feel I need to mention because it just came to me in that moment, and I think it came as a purpose, like a message almost from my higher self that I need to communicate.
And I think that's so fascinating as well.
Absolutely.
Look, at the end of the day, our mind, our mind being made up of the conscious and the subconscious mind, our subconscious is the one that is pretty much downloading from the environment, from our physical reality, from our senses, everything.
It's just billions and billions of bits of data that it's constantly processing, organizing, archiving, sorting and filing and doing a lot of like, okay, where does this go?
How does this make sense with this and that?
And putting it all together.
It's like it's dreaming a movie.
And our conscious mind is like a tiny little dot that is only aware of a few certain things.
So what I always tell my clients when we start working together, what I tell them is that in our brains, there is a tiny little part that is called the reticular activation, activating system, the RAS.
And that little part of her brain, what it does is that it acts, I sometimes imagine it like a fence, like a sliding fence.
And so the RAS is the part of her brain that allows only certain information to filter from the subconscious into the conscious.
Because if we were consciously aware of everything that we need to be constantly, how can I say, sorting and filing and interacting with on a consistent per second basis, we would self-combust.
We wouldn't be able to handle that.
Like, oh, I need to feed the baby, but I also need to keep my heart beating.
How many times has it beat today?
Oh, 60?
Is it supposed to be 60, 120?
I don't remember.
And the breathing, oh, wait, gosh, I forgot to breathing now.
And oh, the thing that I, you know, what I ate this morning, is it being digested?
Oh, shoot, I forgot to send it to my, you know, to my digestive tract.
And so, you know, we can't.
We can't.
So our subconscious is the one that keeps track of all of these things in the background that we don't even have to think about.
We don't have to think about breathing.
We don't have to think about our heart or anything of the sort.
But to your point, what happens is that when we are able to activate that RAS system so that it gives us the information that we want, sometimes the RAS is in tune with something.
It was, and as you say, when you feel, when you felt that you said something that you were not meant to say, but it just came through you, it was because possibly your subconscious and your conscious were working together and there was a signal and your subconscious said, you know what, maybe this is going to land better.
Maybe this is really what is needed to be said with this word, in this way, rather than what you had originally thought of, because what you had thought of, you prepared in the realm of the physical world, where the problems are in the first layer.
But then your subconscious came in on a higher vantage point and said, wait, wait, wait, wait, let's just go with this because I have access to so much more data.
Then you are consciously handling.
So let me just filter what is needed for this specifically.
So I love that when it comes to manifesting, what you say about, oh, what action should I take or should I just cross my arms and wait for things to land on my lap?
Like, what's the deal?
I would say that allowing our subconscious mind to do the heavy lifting because it comes from a higher vantage point, is going to naturally bring about that insight, that inspiration, that sort of nudge that is, it seems to be very subtle, but it's sort of like, even though it made sense on paper to do it this way, something made me do it this other way, and that was the right way, or that was the way that actually created the great result that you were after anyway.
So it's not inspired action.
A lot of people call it inspired action.
It's not only action.
When you're just doing action and action and action, that's willpower.
That's you coming at it from the conscious mind saying, okay, I guess I need to solve this problem with the limited information that I have within my subconscious mind.
I'm going to try to do more and more and more to see what sticks.
But when you connect with your subconscious mind, and this is part of the manifestation aspect of things, where you know how to work with this new layer, or this layer that comes a little bit above the first one, then you're going to see that you just have this, I got the sense of going over here rather than there.
And people call it also inspiration, right?
Or intuition.
There was something about this person that didn't gel with me, even though it seems wonderful that we should work together.
But you know what?
I just didn't feel like saying yes.
And that is this vantage point of your subconscious mind and bringing in this intuitive tool into the mix so that you're like, well, I cannot put my finger on it, but I just know that it didn't feel right.
And that's why I didn't act on this.
So knowing what to do next and knowing what not to do next is that inspired action of the equation.
Yes.
Not just sitting and saying I'm not going to do anything.
You have to do something, but it has to come from this knowing that yes, it's this way or this direction rather than the other way.
Yeah.
Look, it's going to be a personal and very subjective experience for everyone, right?
Everyone has like unique desires and goals and things they want to manifest in their lives.
But the real key is to align your thoughts, your emotions, your beliefs and your actions and then also trust in the process of manifestation.
But so how do you actually manifest, right?
So I'll give you a little tiny example of what I'm doing, just a small one.
But I have at the beginning, and again, this is all inspired by Iva, but this is where what we said in the last episode is where our knowledge and our power by being business besties and accountability partners comes together as, again, we're learning from each other, right?
And moving to the next level, doing something that we probably wouldn't have done on our own.
But so I went in at the beginning of the year, wrote like a magical script for myself, right?
Something, there's a few goals that I have and desires that I have at the moment, and I've put them all in a little script.
And I wrote it down as if it's already happened, kind of wanting to give my subconscious that signal this is it, this is it, this is I want to fully embody it.
I'm just going to talk.
I don't have it yet, but I'm just going to pretend and just say that I do.
And I wrote the script of what my life looks like in a year from now.
Love it.
Right?
And I am reading it to myself every single day.
And but when I did it, I also inhaled a specific essential oil, because again, the power of the senses, you relate to something, right?
So I chose an oil for yourself.
You can choose whatever oil you want.
There's some good ones and bad ones, but we have those secrets to share as well.
But so I then sprinkled some on my paper too.
And so now I'm reading this magical script to myself every single day to embody and therefore attract the outcomes.
And by putting in this subconscious effort.
Now, because I'm also a person that's a busy mom, I'm always on my bike.
My next step is to record this so I can listen to it as well.
And maybe even more than once a day to really, really, really, really embody it all.
And so that's just a little tiny example of what I do.
Now, something exciting is that we have actually put together a manual of how to manifest.
What are your steps?
What are the tools?
What are the secrets?
What are something that you can do straight away on your own to literally make your desires come through?
So do you want to tell everyone about our master class?
Yes.
And our challenge?
Yes, we have two incredible starters that you can access straight away.
One is the Manifesting Made Easy for Busy Mom Bosses, that it's all about, it's like a very quick, it's a 20-minute master class, and that really sets the stage for what is it that we're striving to go for, and what are some of those quick mindset shifts that can help us get into that state of mind faster.
So that's why we made it intentionally 20-minute long, because we know that a lot of us mompreneurs, we don't have a lot of time.
But if you do have time to scroll, you definitely have time to access this master class and really just set the stage.
So it's this like first step to really put yourself in the right space to be able to start getting and diving deeper.
And so then you can join us for the 10-day Manifest with Ease Challenge, where we're going more into the art and science of manifesting.
But in a way that really goes into those foundational layers.
Because if we're trying to build like the life of our dreams, if we really want to be the architects of this future life that we want to enjoy, then we certainly need to set the stage, the foundations for where everything is going to come on top of what.
And so unraveling this question about, okay, so what do I do next?
Or what am I supposed to do first?
What is needed?
What are some quick hacks to keep me in the mindset that I need to be while I'm making my manifestation appear in the 3D world, in the physical world?
What are those things?
Throughout 10 days together, Desiree and I are going to dive into that, and we're going to make it very fun.
We're going to make it very actionable, but we're going to make it so that you can really feel comfortable with this tool, so that you can use them over and over again to manifest in every area that you want.
It's not just the money, it's not just the car, but as Desiree, you know, you were sharing, we can manifest so many things, that perfect relationship.
You know what you can manifest?
You can manifest the weekend of your dreams, right?
What would that look like?
What will your children be doing, not doing, et cetera?
So there are so many applications to this, and it's not only reserved for a certain few that have it, right?
The enlightened ones or whatever that is.
We all have the ability to make the life of our dreams come true, and we want to help you in a way that also respects your time, your busy lifestyle, the fact that you have children, that you have 10 million other things to do, but that maybe this year, maybe this week, maybe this month, you say enough, it's time for me to change.
It's time for me to go to the next level that I want to be in, and I don't want to play small anymore, and I want to see what this manifesting is all about.
If that is you, if you feel called by this invitation, then all you have to do is click on the link that we're going to provide in the show notes of this episode and come and join us.
And we're here and ready and so excited and happy and thrilled to be sharing with you in this space, because part of it is how you feel while you're doing it.
And so Desiree and I will bring the fun.
You bring yourself.
And then we'll be sharing.
And a friend.
Yes.
Bring an accountability partner.
Bring the business bestie, your body, someone that you're like, hey, do you want to do this together?
Collective energy is so powerful.
When we do it in a concerted effort, several people at once, it just brings about changes that much faster.
Exactly.
Exactly.
I just wanted to say like, why, you know, you're probably asking, why don't you just write it down and give us a manual and then we're on our way.
But the point is really and it really like last week, we spoke about that.
The power of doing things together is just so much stronger than if you're going at it alone.
So if you don't just want to equip you with a manual, instead we want to do it together as a group, you know, and with that, you'll be learning and at the same time, starting off your manifesting journey.
And with this collective energy, like, like Iva just said, we are going to supercharge this.
It's amazing what can be done when all of our energies come together.
So we're so excited.
We can't wait to see what will happen.
We always put a disclaimer in there because it can literally change the rest of your year.
As the saying goes, if you want to go fast, go alone.
If you want to go far, go together.
Thank you, dear mama, for listening and taking us along for the ride.
See you in the next episode.
Bye-bye.
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